It’s so hard to believe that it was exactly five years ago today – September 4, 2016 (see note below) – that we sailed away from the dock of the Youngstown Yacht Club. Away from our family, our friends, our jobs and all that had been constant in our lives. It was the most perfect morning for starting our adventure – sunny, but not too warm; a nice breeze but not enough for waves. Guy Jones and Bob Reese & Pauline Kaiser were the brave souls who saw us off the dock at 6 am and we were glad to have the company as we bid Youngstown farewell.

I don’t think we knew what to expect as we set off – we could only hope that the short cruises we had enjoyed, the reading and research we had done, and the encouragement of fellow long-time cruisers would be enough to get us through all the adventures we were about to have. Although we originally thought we would have headed down to the Caribbean and perhaps beyond by now, we have found that we really enjoy the Bahamas in the winter and New England/the US during the summer. Not only are the Bahamas relatively crime free, they are close by. The people are wonderful, the climate is perfect, and the sea life is spectacular. But who knows what we may decide to do in the next few years – our options are open.

What have we learned over the past five years? Certainly more than I can capsulize here, but I’ll give it a try.
(1) Most importantly, we’ve learned that it is hard to be away from friends and family, especially during the tough times. My beloved father passed away on April 1 this year, and a moment hasn’t passed when I haven’t wished I could have visited with him more recently or more regularly. All plans I had on flying home around the holidays or in the spring were all squashed by Covid. We have missed parties, weddings and funerals, missed hanging out at YYC, missed race nights, and missed just sharing a glass of wine with friends. But when we are lucky enough to see friends and family, it is all the more special.

(2) We’ve learned that A LOT can go wrong on the boat – all cruisers say the same thing. It’s not all sitting around quaffing umbrella drinks and eating bon bons. It’s crawling into tight spaces to replace impellers, or pumps, or hoses, or goodness knows what. And things go wrong at the most inopportune times – mostly when you have guests! Nothing worse than an exploding head with company on board. As our friend Linda said, cruising is hard, and that’s why many people give up after a few years. Having said that, we are not ready to give up! We just really appreciate it when the boat is behaving for a spell. Unfortunately, most of the “ugly” jobs fall into Gary’s lap, so I think he gets the raw end of the stick (until I think of how many meals I have to make every day – then maybe, not so much!).

(3) We’ve learned that WEATHER is our life. Windy.com is our new friend. Every morning we look at the weather, whether we are moving or not. We have outrun several tropical storms and hurricanes. It is NOT fun. Ida was the closest we have been to a tornado – there was one in Annapolis as we were traversing the Chesapeake-Delaware Canal. On this recent trip back down from Maine, after we were at the Cape and Ida was coming up the coast and headed straight for us, we were doing 112-115 NM a day (about 125-130 Statutory Miles), starting at 5 am at morning and going till 9 pm just to cover enough ground. I love going into an anchorage in the dark – NOT.

(4) We’ve learned that there are wonderful fellow cruisers out there – some that we have really bonded with and stay in regular contact with. Unfortunately, those fellow cruisers usually head in different directions, so we don’t get to see them often as we would like. Thank goodness for the internet, which allows us to stay in touch with them as they travel different parts of the globe. Other cruisers are also a wonderful source of information.

(5) We’ve learned that YouTube is our friend – there are countless “how to’s” on YouTube which are a lifesaver when you are trying to do something yourself the first time.
(6) We’ve learned that plastics are a complete nightmare for our environment – not that we weren’t aware of it before, but it is really in your face when you see the amount of plastic waste in the water and washed up on beaches. We have reduced our plastic consumption considerably, and re-use as much as possible.

(7) We’ve learned that climate change is a real issue, particularly in the water. The level of coral bleaching we have seen is downright frightening. We have been back to underwater sites that have been destroyed just in the past few years that we have been visiting – all the colors gone, covered with algae, and few fish. And storms are becoming more frequent and more violent.
(8) We’ve learned to fish, either by trolling or by spearing (by “we” at this point, I’m talking mostly Gary – although I have reeled in a fish or two!). We save tons of money in the Bahamas, not having to buy protein very often.

(9) We’ve learned that we love our boat. We love the space, the layout, the galley, and especially the cockpit. It is wonderful to be able to completely enclose yourself when the weather is cold and miserable, and to drop all the screens when the green-headed monsters are biting. And it is perfect for entertaining guests. It is a big commitment to decide on a boat that you’re going to live on, and we are happy we made the right choice.
(10) We’ve learned that Hobie the cat is a HUGE stress reliever for us. When things are going wrong or you’ve had a bad day (or on the verge of throwing each other overboard!), he is the constant in our life that is always happy to see us. We had some trepidation at the beginning, but now we can’t imagine living aboard without him.
Despite losing Dad in April, and Gary’s unexpected back surgery in July, we still managed to make it up to Bar Harbor in Maine. As I write, we are back in Annapolis, getting ourselves geared up to make yet another trek down to the Bahamas. The list of “things to do” and “things to buy” before we start heading south is a mile long. Knowing what to do and how to provision has been a big learning curve for us, but we have slowly got the hang of it over the past five years. At the top of the “things to buy” us a new camera! My beloved Sony NEX-7 sounds like a machine gun when I turn it on, so I think the salt life finally got to it. All the pictures in this blog were done on my cell phone.
So on we go – bring on the next five years! Love and hugs to all.













































































































